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If You Want To Be A Good Friend, You Must Do This One Thing
Protect your friends by vetting people you bring into their lives. Here’s how.
Whenever I develop a relationship with somebody, I like to think about how I can provide value to that person. I’d love to be the reason that somebody is able to solve a problem, or discovers something new.
But if experience has taught me anything, I know good intentions could go horribly wrong.
I know you’ve been there too. It happens.
The Latin phrase “Primum non nocere”, translates out to “first, to do no harm”. In fact, part of the Hippocratic Oath includes a promise “to abstain from doing harm”, and I found that pretty profound.
To me, that means: try to do good, but if you can’t, try not to make things worse.
When you apply that to your social and personal life, this is where you can gain a very valuable skill. But in order to do that, you are going to have to develop a special insight.
Once you have earned somebody’s trust, it is your responsibility as a friend to make sure that none of your actions cause harm to them.
