This is a very outstanding article, and every point is spot on - I can attest from my own experience.

I especially like the question about hard limits, fantasies and ideas each might want to try in the future.

I do think it is difficult to project into the future about what happens if one loses interest in sex. “We’ll, that will never happen, so we’re good there!” I don’t think people really understand that until it were to actually happen. But it is good to have that discussion.